A Letter to My New Baby

Photographer Nicki Sebastian reflects on bringing home baby to big sis.

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There’s nothing more precious than those first few weeks with a new baby, and yet, they often flash by in a blur. If you’re not careful, those sweet newborn memories can slip through your fingers, thanks to the daily distractions of motherhood.

But, a beautiful baby book can be the perfect excuse to document those early days and weeks…the first nap, the first snuggle, the first time baby meets her big sister. It’s a place for all those special photos, and also a record of everyday moments, first-time meetings and mama’s own memories.

To celebrate Artifact Uprising’s new interactive photo journal for baby’s first year and beyond, we asked LA photographer Nicki Sebastian to fill out a page from the Story of You. Below, this brand new mom of two shares a few personal snapshots from her first few weeks and a letter to her dear little Cecelia Lou. Get your tissues ready.

Why you should make a baby book

We brought you home to…

Your big sister Cami had been requesting a little sister for ages—specifically asking your daddy and me to order one online. While Cami’s understanding of baby delivery clearly differed from ours, we did share her hopes for another little being to raise and love—and lo and behold you chose us as your family unit, fulfilled all of our dreams at once, and completed our little household.

Your presence was felt well before my pregnancy test read positive, but at 12 weeks gestation, you really made yourself known when, here in our kitchen, your daddy and I opened the sealed gender-reveal envelope from the doctor, and the tiny folded piece of paper read in pink all-caps, “GIRL.” I literally dropped to my knees with overwhelming joy, and your daddy and I shared uncontrollable laughter, tears, and a trembling embrace that lasted a good 15 minutes.

Fast forward to April 12, 2017. You came into the world eight days early looking around the delivery room so serene, pensive, and alert—undoubtedly cut from the same cloth as your older sister. The following day we brought Cami to the hospital to meet you for the very first time, and when the nurse rolled your bassinet into Mommy’s room, your sister’s gaze widened with wonder and she whispered so as not to wake you: “She’s the littlest girl I’ve ever seen! I love her.” Your daddy and I wiped our eyes more than a few times and gave Cami the pink plush bunny you “picked out just for her.” She couldn’t believe that you already knew her taste in stuffed animals at such an early age, and we as your parents couldn’t believe the connection you girls had from day one of your life.

Sisters reading a bookmaking a baby book

The following afternoon when we brought you home from the hospital, we were greeted by a colorful array of Cami’s chalk drawings covering the driveway made with love, in celebration of you—”Welcome Cece!” was the centerpiece of her creation. Upon entering the house you were received with more enthusiasm than I’ve ever witnessed in Cami (and you’ll learn that she’s quite the spirited, expressive sister if you haven’t noticed already).

The two of you have been inseparable since—Cami takes her job as bottle-holder extremely seriously, and she insists on entertaining you with song (and often instrumental accompaniment) each time you lay on the changing table. Your new smiles of delight in return read as if you’re shouting, “Encore!” after her performances, and your eyes become even brighter when your sister just enters the room. Cecelia Lou, you’re a treasure to all three of us, and watching your relationship with your sister grow and blossom is the ultimate gift to your daddy and me. We love you girls infinitely and we love your bond just as much—life with you is beautiful, sweet Cece, and it’s only becoming more magical every day.

Photography by Nicki Sebastian for Well Rounded.

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Jessica Pallay

Jessica Pallay

Jessica Pallay is Co-Founder and Editor of Well Rounded NY. She is a Brooklyn mama to Libby and Elsie, and writes about all things pregnancy and new motherhood.

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