Reflection: 39 Weeks

What the last few days before birth really feel like, as told by Household Mag’s founder.

As I am writing this I am one week and one day away from my due date. Our nursery is all set up, the hospital bag is packed, most of our family is in town from Phoenix, and my husband has officially moved his office home in preparation of our baby’s arrival. Now we just wait.

As difficult as the final months of pregnancy can be: the discomfort, the anticipation, the sweat (oh my gosh, the sweat!), the ability to find anything in your closet that fits, I can say I am so grateful to have had such a healthy and smooth pregnancy. It took us almost a year to get pregnant, which I understand is normal, but that year was full of many months where we would build excitement, and then be let down, over and over again. When the home pregnancy test finally read positive we were happy beyond belief.

As most things do, it came at the perfect time. Getting pregnant at the time I did allowed my husband to land his dream job in New York, and for us to be able to pursue both his career and starting a family at the same time. I have learned so much through my pregnancy about myself, my marriage, and what I can anticipate as motherhood approaches.

That being said, I am aware I truly have no clue what is coming my way. Many mothers have said to me through this process that you think you are prepared for the love you will feel, but that nothing can prepare you. So prepared or unprepared, I am ready. I cannot wait to meet our baby.

Photography by Amy Hanen.

Hailey Andresen

Hailey Andresen

Hailey Andresen moved to Brooklyn from Phoenix this past March where she had built her passion for community and food in the restaurant and hospitality industry. After ten years she is taking a break from all of that to start a family with her husband, Zack. She is the founder and voice of Household Mag. where she shares her love for food, New York, family, design and her experiences as a first time mother.

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